There are a lot of people that don't understand why I blog and my life and I understand that. I always wondered why people blog but now I do it myself I understand why, it is a way of release and it is a good way to write about topics that are of interest to … Continue reading Blog 449: Why do I share? →

I have been blogging for a few years now and a lot of my followers are new and so I wanted you to know more about me, my answers are underlined and my husbands are in bold. I would be interested to see what your answers would be, please do comment and share! Delivery or … Continue reading Blog 448: Quick Quiz →

Don't you miss those people who live far away? Do you have friends that live far away? Does it take you ages to find a date that you can both make? We all have friends that live a while away and some people live in other countries and that is hard! I have friends that … Continue reading Blog 447: People far away →

We all have to learn to manage our time at some point in our lives. As we get older we have more things that take time in our lives and we need to know what is important and what can wait. When we are younger it is all about getting our homework on time but … Continue reading Blog 446: Take time →

Wouldn't you just love it if you didn't have to grow up and could be a child forever? How fun would that be? No work and all play! We have all watched Peter Pan and saw how fun it would be to stay children and have fun. When I was younger I loved using my … Continue reading Blog 445: Peter Pan →

Do you ever find that a problem shared is a problem cared? If you need to stay up at night it is better to be with someone else? Having a road trip is better with another person. It is good to have a sibling than to be alone and it is the same with marriage. … Continue reading Blog 444: Two is better than one →

How would you feel if your parents knew everything that you did? How would you feel if you knew someone was watching you all the time? How would you feel if the person who was watching you all the times was trying to protect you? How do you feel about someone knowing everything about you … Continue reading Blog 443: Who knows everything →

If you were in deep trouble who would you turn too? If you needed help who would you call? If you had a problem who would be the first one you think of? There are many answers to those questions, maybe your mum, someone in your family or maybe even your best friend? We all … Continue reading Blog 442: God Saves →

When people look at me they see me doing nothing, I have nap after nap, I have no job, I have no social life, I have no responsibilities, I have nothing that I have to do, I have no children, I have no studies, I have no family that need me, I have nothing, I … Continue reading Blog 441: You’re Lazy →

    How many people around you can you honestly trust? How many people around you have broken your trust? Who do you trust? Why do  you trust those people? How long are you able to trust those people? Have you trusted those people most of your life? Would you trust people that you have … Continue reading Blog 440: I don’t trust you… →

In all of the world there are so many people in relationships, married, dating, engaged and it is so sweet but there can be a lot of pressure surrounding it all. A relationship has to be perfect, there needs to be no arguments, it has to be a certain way, each party has to do … Continue reading Blog 439: God first →

As I am writing this I feel very disconnected to everything I used to enjoy and to everything I want to do. I feel that everyone is away from me, I feel that I am not how I used to be. I feel that I am different. I feel that things are strained. I feel … Continue reading Blog 438: Unplugged →

Don't we just wish that the summer holidays were here already? Some of us have had the Easter break to be able to relax but most people only get fours weeks of holiday. I love summer, don't get me wrong, but I hate the sand getting in my toes and the amounts of sun-cream I … Continue reading Blog 437: Sun, sea and suncream →

Have you every been lost? Have you every been far away from family? Have your family forgot where you have been? Have you been so lost you keep going the wrong way? Have you been so lost that you don't know who to call? Have you lost your child? Have you lost your wallet? Have … Continue reading Blog 436: Lost but can be found →

What is your go to food? What is your comfort food? What food do you turn to when you are happy? What food do you want when you are not yourself? What food do you crave when things are not going well? Are you a healthy person and would rather eat fruit? Are a person … Continue reading Blog 435: Chocolate and more Chocolate →

A couple of days ago you may have heard the phrase, 'He is risen, He is risen indeed' but what does that mean? Why do we celebrate Easter and why is it so important to so many people. Over the years Easter weekend has been sucked up with eggs, chocolate, time of work, food and … Continue reading Blog 434: He is risen →

Do you know what this weekend is? Are you just excited to have four days of work? We al love a free day of work but do we know what this weekend represents or are we just ready to get out and be with our family? This weekend is not about the Easter eggs or … Continue reading Blog 433: Why is tomorrow good? →

It doesn't matter how long you have been married, whether it be long or short you and your spouse need to be kept accountable for the vows you took on your wedding day and you need someone to be able to challenge you on them when they don't think you are doing your best. It … Continue reading Blog 432: Wedding vow accountability →

How many people do you know who have a bucket list? Do you have one yourself? Do you have any ideas of what you want to do before you pass away? Do you think that you will get everything done that you want to? Do you want to do things with others? Do others know … Continue reading Blog 430: My Bucket List →

No diagnosis should define me and no one should judge anyone because of a 'label' that they have been given by the doctors. No one should have the feeling that they are not understood because of something that life has dealt them. Being diagnosed with something is not fun and it can be very hard … Continue reading Blog 429: EUPD and PTSD →

We often find it hard to ask for help, we find it hard to reach out to other people, we find it hard to know that we need help and we need to ask for it, it won't just be given to us if we do not ask for it. Asking for help can be … Continue reading Blog 428: Just ask for help →

When you are sick who do you go to? When you are unwell what do you do? When you hear of someone else being sick what goes through your head? I hate getting sick, I am such a bad person to look after when I am sick as I will moan and groan and life … Continue reading Blog 427: God will Heal →

If I was to ask you what prayer is, would you know? How many times do you pray in a day? Do you know who you are praying too? Do you know that there is only one God? If you were to die tonight where would you go? When things go wrong in life who … Continue reading Blog 426: Dear God →

30 years ago tomorrow my sister was born and how those 30 years have flown by. We have been through so much together, we have been to different schools, we have been home-schooled, we have been to the same college but at different times, we have been away, we have got married, we have done … Continue reading Blog 425: 30 years →

We have all experienced anxiety in our lives, we have all had times when we are not able to be ourselves, we have all had times when we are scared of doing something, we have all had times when we have struggled to do something, we have all at some stage in our lives have … Continue reading Blog 424: Be patient with Anxiety →

It is the truth in life that we all want to be liked, we want to have more likes on our Facebook page, we want to have more likes on our Instagram, we want people to text us throughout the day, we want people to be in contact, we want o have many friends, we … Continue reading Blog 423: You don’t need to be liked →

I think that most of us can say that we hate change, we hate having to move, we hate starting the new year, we hate starting a new school, we hate changing school but most of all we hate changing ourselves, our outlook on life, our feelings and our thoughts. Change can be hard, change … Continue reading Blog 422: Change happens →

Have you ever had someone you know close to you pass away? Have you ever had that heavy oit in your stomach? Have you wanted to call them but have not been able to? Have you accidently said their name when they are no longer around? It could be a human or it could be … Continue reading Blog 421: Missing you →

Don't you just love it when you see an elderly couple holding hands walking down the street? It shows that love doesn't have to get boring and old as you get old. You can still keep that spark alive but sometimes it will take more work than other times, sometimes you have to put in … Continue reading Blog 420: Keep love going →

When was the last time you let your spouse know that you love them? When was the last time that you let them know they are precious to you? How do you show that you love your spouse? It was just two days ago that we celebrated valentines day-the day of love. However, I bet … Continue reading Blog 419: Love your spouse →

When you first saw your now spouse when did you know it was true love? When did you know that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them? When did you know that nothing would get in the way of loving that other person? There will be times when you will always … Continue reading Blog 418: Perfect Love →

We all have people around us that we love, we have our family, our spouse, our children, our friends, our church family. We love them all but in different ways, we love our spouse more than our children but our children more than our friends. It doesn't matter who we are with or who we … Continue reading Blog 417: I Love you →

When you meet someone do you feel true love? We often watch movies that have 'true love' and it gives us false hope to be honest. We often crave true love and we often crave wanting to be wanted and it is unrealistic and the movies that we watch don't help this feeling either. We … Continue reading Blog 416: True Love →

Why do people lie? Why do people think that they are able to get away with lying through their teeth? Why do people do it when they know they are going to get caught out? There are several reasons as to why people lie and some can be quiet simple and others can be quiet … Continue reading Blog 415: Just tell the truth →

Have you ever lost a pet? It was about 8 years ago that I lost my fur baby and it was one the saddest day of my life! It was hard to loose my fur baby, I had, had him for about 10 years and he was my baby. I had him in my arms … Continue reading Blog 414: Missing my baby →

How often do you say thankful and how often are you thankful for the things and people that you have in your life? Thank you is just such a small word (check out another blog here) and sometimes we often don't say it or find it hard to say those two simple words! Why? Are … Continue reading Blog 413: Being Thankful →

Do you find it easy to forgive and forget or are you just one to pretend to forgive? There will be people in your life that you will find hard to forgive and there will be people in your life that you do not want to forgive but we need to and we must not … Continue reading Blog 412: Are you ready to forgive? →

How do you feel when someone asked you a personal question? Are you willing to open up or would you prefer to keep quiet and keep to yourself? In order to open up you need to be willing to trust other people and you need to know that the other person will love you no … Continue reading Blog 411: Open Up →

How often do you take that time to yourself? How often do you have that bath that you have always wanted? When was the last time you went out for coffee on your own? We always want people to apologise in order for us to move on but sometimes that is not possible, sometimes the … Continue reading Blog 410: Take time for yourself →

What is PTSD? Post-Traumatic stress disorder is something that is hard to talk about, something hard to diagnose and something hard to get over. It is something that can affect children but also adults and we seem to shy away from talking about it. PTSD is a real thing and being silent is not how … Continue reading Blog 409: Adult PTSD →

How thankful are you for the previous year? How are you feeling now that we are going into a new year? What plans do you have for this year? Are you grateful for all the things you have learnt in the past year? There are so many things that we can learn in a year … Continue reading Blog 408: New Year →

Most of us remember what happened last Christmas but what about the year before? Or even 5 years ago? What about 10 years ago? Surely not 20 years ago? Without a doubt this is a period in our life that we remember things that have gone on, we remember those people around us, we remember … Continue reading Blog 407: Christmas Memories →

When we think of a goat we think of the animal, there are farm ones, mountain ones, small ones, large ones and cute ones. However when I say G.O.A.T I don't mean these cute furry animals but I am talking about the greatest of all time. When I say about the greatest of all time … Continue reading Blog 406: G.O.A.T →

When we have Christmas what do you think about? The food? The presents? The family? The snow? The Christmas tree? The children? The meals out? The money spent? If someone was to say to you what do you think about when I say Christmas and then say Easter what would your answer be? We often … Continue reading Blog 405: Easter at Christmas →

Do you love Christmas or are you one of those people that dread that time of the year coming around? This is a time of year that should be joyful, we should be full of happiness, we should be full of awe but instead this time can be full of conflict for so many couples … Continue reading Blog 404: Troubles at Christmas →

Since we have all been small we have had our traditions, whether that is to do with holidays, birthdays or Christmas, we all like to have our traditions and make memories with our family and children. We are now at the beginning of Christmas season and if you listen carefully you can hear the whispers … Continue reading Blog 403: Our traditions →

How are you feeling about your marriage? Have you just started your married life? Being married brings so many things to the forefront of your mind, will you get on? How will you react in your first argument? Does the other person respect you? Do they compare you to an ex? Will they treat you … Continue reading Blog 402: Trusting in marriage →

Baby A on 2nd December 2022 at 5:33pm weighing in at 7lb 2oz you entered our lives and we couldn't be more excited. We are so thankful that you are finally here. We can't wait to see you grow up, we can't wait to see your personality come out, we can't wait to see what … Continue reading Blog 401: To our Nephew →

Today you are probably exhausted, today you are probably stuffed, today you are happy ad today is two days after Christmas. You may not want be wanting to talk to other people but you may be wanted to read these blogs and why not. Today is a very special day because I have just hit … Continue reading 400 blogs →

There are so many people across the world that live with anxiety, some are unable to go out, some are unable to meet with friends, some are unable to talk about issues, some are unable to be themselves and this is all because of anxiety. Anxiety is something that can destroy someones life and we … Continue reading Blog 399: Life with anxiety →

Do you fear of being judged? Do you fear going out because you feel that other people are judging you for being you? The fear of being judged is all in our head and something that we need to work out of being in our brain but believe me it is hard to do! Where … Continue reading Blog 398: Judgement fear →

Do you ever feel that you have been on your personal journey for such a long time and you feel like you are on your own? Do you feel like life is slogging along? Do you feel like you are in a desert just trying to get through life and on auto pilot? It is … Continue reading Blog 397: I’m in the desert →

Aren't there times in your life when you just want to go back to being a child? There are times when we look at our own children and want to do what they are doing or we remember those days in our childhood when we did similar things. There are certain times that I look … Continue reading Blog 396: A Kids life →

What time do you go to bed? Are you one of those people who falls asleep early in the evening and refuses to go to bed because its too early? When a man and women go to bed it seems to be two different things. Men go straight to bed and a women can take … Continue reading Blog 395: ‘Going to bed!’ →

Tomorrow is the 11/11 and we think about all those men and women who served in WW1, WW2. Did you know that in WW1 (1914-1918) alone 40 million men, women, children, civilians, military personnel died, in WW2 (1939-1945) 70–85 million men and women including those in the holocaust died and since then 77,676 people died in … Continue reading Blog 394: To those who Served →

For all those people out there when you got married you made a vow to your spouse that you would love, cherish and obey them through everything. However, when you have children it is a hard journey, there are things that need to be done, there are things to learn, there are things that need … Continue reading Blog 393: Support to your children →

How do you feel and sleep in the night, are you a calm sleeper, are you a deep sleeper, are you a snorer, are you a dreamer, are you up with children, are you a minimum sleeper? There are so many different kinds of sleepers and as we get older our sleep changes. There is … Continue reading Blog 392: Secrets of the night →

We all have that point in our lives when we find it hard to go on special date nights, we just don't have enough money. We want more money but we have to deal with the fact that we need to have date nights on a limited budget. It can be hard to think outside … Continue reading Blog 391: Date nights →

There are so many things in life that we look to for satisfaction, we want to look our best so we get appreciated by our friends, we want to have the up to date car so people stare at us down the street, we want to have the best job so people look up to … Continue reading Blog 390: Who is your saviour? →

'You have to love yourself.' How many times do we hear that in a day? We seem to want to tell others to love themselves but do you love yourself, not in a weird way but in a self loving way. We need to love ourselves through everything, through the hard times, through the easy … Continue reading Blog 389: Have self-love →

Do you find that life is pulling you down? Do you feel that God doesn't love you? Do you feel that you are at the end of your journey? Do you feel that you are no worthy? Do you feel that you are not comfortable with who you are? We often have so much baggage … Continue reading Blog 388: Wonderfully made →

When we get married we always think we are in a fairy tale and we know it, is going to be amazing. However, there are things that will work against us, there will be money problems, there will be family issues, there will be illness, there will be differences, there will be expectations that will … Continue reading Blog 387: Marriage Basics →

Don't we just love it in life when good things happen, when we can be with family, when we can be with friends, when we can be around those people that we love, when we can enjoy the good weather, when we have good periods in our life. I do often wonder though how much … Continue reading Blog 386: Thankful for the good times →

How often do we want to give up in life? How often do bad things happen and you just want to give up and leave the storm? We all have times when life is hard and we don't want to go through the storm. We all have times when we cannot do anything else but … Continue reading Blog 385: Walking through the storm →

When we first started dating there was a lot of people who said that we would not last, I tried and succeeded at proving them wrong. It has been known that throughout dating so many people go their own ways because there relationship is unable to work and they just are not compatible. It is … Continue reading Blog 384: Pre-marriage tips →

Did you know that children learn from looking and copying? Did you know that children will watch and learn everything that you do from your action, to your language to how you treat other people. When you think about it, it can be quite scary that children will learn from everything that you do. When … Continue reading Blog 383: Example to Children →

The last time I wrote about being single I was single but now I am a married lady, there are still loads of people who are single and want to be loved and I know your pain! We all know what being single is like, we have been around friends who are getting married, we … Continue reading Blog 382: Be happy single →

As a young women I often find it hard to believe in myself, I find it hard to let other people love me, I find it hard to know that God loves me. To be honest I find it really hard to do and feel a lot of things and because of that life is … Continue reading Blog 381: What is a godly woman →

Over the years I have found it very hard to trust other people. I have been hurt so many times that now I find it hard to fully trust other people even those people who are close to me, even family! I know trusting someone is a very important thing in life and it is … Continue reading Blog 380: Trust God →

We all suffer pain in our lives, it can vary from pain in our heart to our body to our actions. There are so many things in life that can cause us pain, we have pain from loosing someone, we have pain when we hurt our self, we have pain when we loose a job, … Continue reading Blog 379: Moving on from pain →

11:00 am today at Westminster Abbey we say goodbye to the longest serving monarch, we say goodbye to the Queen, we say goodbye to a mother of 4, grandmother of 8 ad great-grandmother of 12. We say goodbye to someone who has been there through the war, through Prime Ministers, through Presidents, through the thick … Continue reading Blog 378: Thank you Ma’am →

For most people getting married is something that they have wanted for most of their lives, I know so many people, mostly women, and they have dreamed about this time, they have thought about the colours, they have thought about their dresses and when this day comes the dream has become a reality. Many people … Continue reading Blog 377: Marathon of Marriage →

When you are feeling sad where do you go? What do you do to try and feel better? Where do you go when you have lost your mojo? Who do you turn to when you feel sad? How often do you feel sad? Do you have a certain thing to do when you feel bad? … Continue reading Blog 376: Where is your happy Place? →

Our Heavenly Father Today we come to you emotional and with heavy hearts due to the passing of Her Majesty the Queen a couple of days ago. We thank you for her 96 years of life and over 70 years of service to her people in this nation and across the world, we thank you … Continue reading Blog 375: Prayer for the United Kingdom →

Thursday 8th September 2022. ''The Queen died peacefully at Balmoral this afternoon. The King and the Queen Consort will remain at Balmoral this evening and will return to London tomorrow.'' 21st April 1926 - 8th September 2022. Elizabeth Alexandra Mary, Queen Elizabeth the second, first daughter to the late King George VI and Queen Elizabeth, … Continue reading Blog 374: Her Majesty →

How often do we complain? Do you get through a day without moaning? We often complain and it can be because of the smallest things. There are many situations in life when we complain and often we complain so much that people 'zone out' and they don't listen to the points we are making. We … Continue reading Blog 373: Over complaining →

So it is that time of year when the children are going back to school, it is time to put the beach towels away, it is time to put the suitcases away, it is time to travel, it is time to go shopping, it is time to get the uniforms out, it is time to … Continue reading Blog 372: Another School Year →

Soon it will be that time when we have to let your children go to school. It may be your last child going to school for their first day or it may be your eldest going to high school for the first time, either way you have to let them go and learn about the … Continue reading Blog 371: Letting Go →

We go through so many times in life when things are hard, there are so many things that take our attention, there are so many things that take our energy, there are so many things that make us feel romantic and we all want to have those moments. There are many times where the 'spark' … Continue reading Blog 370: Keeping the spark alive →

How often do you look at other families and think they have the perfect life? We often look at other people and think that their lives are perfect and their families are just the way they want it. In reality a lot happens behind closed doors that you do not see and hear. There are … Continue reading Blog 369: God, Family, Society →

In life no matter whether we are men or women we need people who we can rely on, those we can speak to, those we can count upon, those we can call at any point of the day or night. We all need friends, it is perfectly normal to want to have friends around us … Continue reading Blog 368: My girlfriends →

I know very few people in this world that I would actually put my life down for them, sorry! How far would you go to protect someone and to keep them safe and alive? This is a very big question for anyone in their lives let alone those people who are married or who have … Continue reading Blog 367: I died for you →

Don't we all love a good love story, a good dating story, to see how people met, to see what they have been doing, to see where they have been going on dates. Don't we get excited when we find out that our friends are dating and we always want to know more about how … Continue reading Blog 366: End of dating →

We all want to be in charge, we all want to tell others what to do, we all want to lead our families but there should only be one person who 'wears the trousers' in your relationship and that should be the man. It is not that men are more capable or more wise but … Continue reading Blog 365: Let your man lead →

Don't you look around and think how much life has changed since you were a child, how much technology there now is, how many children spend hours in their bedroom, how children are not allowed outside on their own? Since all of our childhood life has changed and things have become totally different to what … Continue reading Blog 364: Pray for your children →

There are certain times of the year when we love someone more than we did the day before. We don't mean to but it just happens such as their birthday, Christmas, anniversary's, valentines day etc. Our hearts seem to be filled with more love on these days than we can imagine but sometimes we need … Continue reading Blog 363: Love everyday →

Do you find it hard to communicate? To talk about your feelings? To talk about your emotions? A lot of us find it hard to communicate with one another and we find it hard to really talk about how we are feeling. There are a lot of people who will not talk about anything and … Continue reading Blog 362: Keep communicating →

No matter what you think we all need space, we all need space to think, we all need space to get our thoughts together, we all need space to organise, we all need space to sleep, we all need space to be ourselves. However, we should not have loads of space that we become isolated … Continue reading Blog 361: Just give me space →

We all like to be romantic, we all like to go on amazing dates, we all like to be with the people that we love, we all like to be with out spouse, we all like a romantic movie but sometimes the romance can go in our relationship. Sometimes we need to put the spark … Continue reading Blog 360: Stay romantic →

There are so many things that are said about tongues, they can say the smallest words but pierce the strongest heart. It may be one of the smallest muscles in our body but we have to be careful about how we use it and what we say with it. The smallest thing can destroy a … Continue reading Blog 359: Small tongue, hurtful words →

We all watch movies where we see the groom bottle it and get cold feet just before he gets to the altar. He gets cold feet. There are other examples of life when there are cold feet too, it can be winter, it can be a job interview, it can be scared of having a … Continue reading Blog 358: Cold Feet →

I realise that there are many people from many different countries have been reading these blogs who do not really know me. I thought it was time for you to get to know me as I have now been blogging for almost 5 years. I have looked up some quick fire questions and here are … Continue reading Blog 357: Get to know me →

How often do you go out and serve other people? It is hard to think about other people when we have families to deal with, we have jobs to go to, we have children to look after, we have so many things and people in our life to split our time in between and it … Continue reading Blog 356: Serve not to be served →

We all know at the beginning of the earth there was one women and one man, Adam and Eve, made in the image of God, married to each other and the beginning of the human race. God commanded these two people to be fruitful and multiply-hence have children and fill the earth with more children. … Continue reading Blog 355: One man and one woman →

We all know the three lettered word: s.e.x but do we know what that really means? Did you wait? When are you going to have children? Have you 'done' it? Have you gone as far as you can without going all the way? God will forgive you if you do do 'it.' Have you talked … Continue reading Blog 354: Sex in marriage only →

Everywhere we look people are on their smartphones, people sit down for a date but end up being on their phones, people go our for a drive but one or other go on their phones, people go out for a walk but they are soon on their phones, people seem to have lost the romantic … Continue reading Blog 353: No to Hollywood romance →

No matter what way we look at it every man needs and women and every women needs a man. With all the things going on in the world it is important that we rely on each other. There are many times in our life that we are upset by some of the things that our … Continue reading Blog 352: Every man needs a women →

Every man and women is different, we were created different, we have different emotions, we have different attributes, we are different and we cannot be the other gender. We were created as a man and a female whether you like it or not. Every person I know is amazing, my mum is amazing, my dad … Continue reading Blog 351: My husband is the best →

Every person you meet, every person you date there will be some intimacy, there will be an attraction that will be had. Whether that be in a family situation or in a relationship we will have some sort of intimacy. We will talk to our family about the things that no one else knows, we … Continue reading Blog 350: Intimacy differences →