Every man and women is different, we were created different, we have different emotions, we have different attributes, we are different and we cannot be the other gender. We were created as a man and a female whether you like it or not. Every person I know is amazing, my mum is amazing, my dad is wonderful, my brother is a blessing, my sister is special and I am grateful for them and all that they bring to my life. My husband however, is the best and I am blessed by Him and his love for me. There are so many things that I love about my husband, if I was to write the things I love about him down I would not have enough paper in the world. God really did bless me when He bought us together and I will never take him for granted. I have been thinking and here are a few things that I love about my husband and the reasons why he is the best.
1) He has passion to serve other people as well as God. No matter what my husband goes through, no matter what he is feeling, no matter what life throws at him he is willing to help other people. He puts his needs and wants to one side to help other people, to serve other people and to serve God. He is willing to get up early to do his Bible reading, to pray and to help me with my devotions. He is willing to put all his thoughts and feelings to one side to make sure people are comfortable at church, he wants people to be accepted for who they are and will reach out to those people who people may not speak to. He has a passion to serve God wherever that may take him and he will lead me and our family to where God is leading him.
2) When things seem impossible he finds the good in everything. I honestly don’t know how he does it but when things seem grim and hard he finds the positive in everything and everyone. He gives everyone the benefit of the doubt, he sees the silver lining in the clouds and I am thankful for that. I am so blessed that he does this because quite frankly I am a negative person. I find it hard to see the good in other people, to see the good in myself, to see the good in the world but my husband helps me in that and he helps me to realise that not everyone is perfect but that things can be better if I trust and believe that God is fully in control of everyone and everything. Sometimes I feel that I need to take a page out of his book and be more positive about the things around us.
3) He spends regular time with me and his family. Being my husband must be hard, first of all he has to live with me and second of all he does all that he can for his family and for us. I am so blessed that he tries to get all his work done so that we are able to have a weekend together and to relax with each other. I know that sometimes it is hard for him to work late into the night but I know he does it because he loves me and wants the best for us. He spends regular time with us and I am thankful for that. My husband is a real blessing to both me and the people around us. God really did bless me when He created him and I know that whatever the future holds God will be there throughout everything.
My husband really is the best and I am so thankful that God bought us together and has helped us through the thick and thin of life. I know that not everything will be perfect in life but I also know that with both God and my husband by my side we will be able to get through anything. As much as I love my husband there will be times when he lets me down and annoys me but God will help me to love and forgive him. God has bought us together and nothing will separate us. Sometimes being married is hard work but I would have it no other way, I am so blessed with the life that I am living and the people that God has put in my life. I will forever be grateful for the love and support that people show me and my husband.