Be Clear

be clear

In life it is hard to be clear about what you want in life, how to say what you want and how to do the things that you want. It is hard to be clear with people around us especially in our relationship and when it may upset other people. Sometimes it is not easy to be clear with our words, with the things that go on but in order for people to know how we are thinking we need to be clear with our words and we need to be clear with how we are feeling. In everyday life it is easy to get angry, it is easy to get distracted, it is easy to get frustrated, it is easy to get sad, it is easy to get into ourselves but we need to talk about it and we need to talk to those people that we trust about our feelings as we will be so much better because of it. We need to be clear about how we are feeling.

If we are not clear about how we are feeling then how are we able to understand other people and their feelings? When something fails to live up to your expectation how do you deal with it? We need to be clear with how we are feeling in our relationship, we need to tell each other our own feelings, how we have been at work, how our days have been, what we are feeling about each other. We need to make sure that we know each other and what makes other people tick. God created us to be together and to have company with each other no matter what that includes. It may be that we need to talk late into the night about our feelings as we cannot get them out other times. Whatever time it is we need to put the other person first and listen to what they have to say and how they are feeling.

I have noticed as a women we tend to want to put our feelings out their when it is late at night. We tend to want to stay up in the evening and talk for ages because it takes us time to get the words out. We tend to want people to read our minds, we want people to know what we are thinking without us saying a word. I don’t know why we do this but we do and it can be and will be hard for other people to know what our feelings are if we don’t talk about them. We need to stop thinking that people can read us and start to talk and use words. We need to know that what we say our spouse will listen to us, men seem to have a way that we think they do not listen to us but if it is important then they do. If it is something to do with us and we are upset about something men have this way of listening and trying to help even if it may not be at that exact time. We need to be clear with them and to trust that they will understand what we are talking about.

In everyday life and all that we do we need to make sure we are clear with our feelings and we need to be open about what is going on. We will make mistakes, we will need to grow up, we will need to talk but most of all we need to trust. We need to trust that we can talk to people about how we are feeling, we need to trust that people will understand, we need to trust that people will be able to help, we need to trust that people will believe in us. In order for other people to help us we need to help ourselves and to be clear with our words. It will take time, it will take patience but in the end we will get there and we will be able to be open with how we are feeling.

In all of our life we will need to trust other people and we will need to be clear with our words. Other people will not always understand how we are feeling and we need to talk to them about it and sometimes it will be hard for them too. However, in our life we can reach out to all the people in the world but they still may not understand us and our feelings. However, we are able to rely and trust in God as He knows how we are feeling, what we struggle with and the best thing is is that we may not be clear with Him but He fully understands us.

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