Loving someone takes time. Each party has to take their own time to know what they would like. Each person has to let love develop no matter the circumstances. Love is a very complicated thing and so it takes time. Every person in the world wants to be loved, we want to be wanted, we want to be understood, we want to be appreciated and it is important to us. Giving love and being loved is part of everyday life and it is important for our self-esteem to feel this way. We all want to have that special person in our lives but before I go into this being single in perfectly fine too. Being single can be part of our life and most of us will be single. We want someone to protect us, to love us, to keep us going through the hard times, we want to be loved. However, we cannot force someone to love us, we cannot force someone to accept us just because we like them. We have to be natural and we have to be willing to change the things that need to be improved and not who we are on the inside.
With wanting to feel loved it is easy to rush into a relationship with the wrong person at the wrong time and to get out of it can be hard. We want to be able to fill the ‘love’ void that is in our lives but we don’t need to rush into things especially with the wrong person at the wrong time. We want to feel loves and accepted for who we are but we can get ourselves involved with people that are not good for us, they can control us, they can make us do things that are not us, they can take over our lives gradually and in the end it will harm us and it will end in unhappiness, loneliness and distrust. Love will come at the right time and love takes time to develop and we need to give it time. Love is something that happens gradually.
Love takes its time and so does waiting for the right person. You need to wait for the person who is right for you, you need to wait for the person who treasures you, you need to wait for someone who gives you time, you need to wait for the person who can be your best friends, you need to wait for the person who does not control you, you need to wait for the person who is excited to see you, you need to wait for the person who loves your bed hair, you need to wait for the person who makes you happy, you need to wait for the person who supports you, you need to wait for the person who loves you and your family, you need to wait for the person who is honest with you, you need to wait for the person who God gives to you however hard that may be.
We cannot be unhappy because of the circumstances that we are currently in. It is totally fine to be on your own and to be happy with the way life is at the moment. You have to live your own life, you have to be proud of who you are, you have to be confident with who you are, you have to be okay with being on your own, you have to be ready to wait, you have to give yourself space. God has your life in His hands and He knows what life is going to hold and He knows that life can be hard with things happening around you but He is there for you and He will be there for you. No matter what you go through God will help you and God will protect you from all the things that is going on but you have to give love time.
Love takes time for humans to come around but God loved us before the universe was created and He knew us before we were conceived in our mothers womb. He knows us and He loves us no matter what we go through in life. Love doesn’t take time for God but it does for us because we are humans and we are sinful people. Our emotions can get the better of us and love can be a difficult thing. We all have our teenage crush but we need to know that real love takes time and loving other people is a continual thing no matter how the other person behaves and what life throws at us.